Trust the Feeling of Moving On, Even if your Heart Doesn’t Feel Ready

By: David Tindall
Thursday, June 22, 2023

The journey of grieving is a deeply personal and unique experience. After the death of a loved one, it is natural to feel a profound sense of loss and heartache. It can be challenging to trust the feeling of moving on from such a significant loss, especially when our heart doesn't feel ready to let go.

Trust the Feeling of Moving On, Even if Your Heart Doesn’t Feel Ready

We at Tindall Funeral Home know that by embracing the healing process, seeking support, and honoring our loved one's memory, we can find solace and rebuild our lives while carrying their love with us. Let’s look at how to trust the feeling of moving on, even when our heart lingers in grief.

Embracing The Healing Process

Moving on from grief doesn't mean forgetting or diminishing the love we had for our departed loved one. It involves accepting the reality of the loss and allowing ourselves to heal. While our hearts may resist, it is essential to trust the natural progression of the healing process. This may include experiencing various emotions, such as anger, sadness, and acceptance. By acknowledging and accepting these emotions, we can gradually open ourselves to the possibility of moving forward while cherishing the memories and love we shared.

Seeking Support And Connection

During grief, seeking support from others can provide solace and strength. Connect with friends, family, support groups, or therapists who can offer a compassionate ear and understanding. Sharing our feelings and experiences with those who have gone through similar losses can be immensely comforting. It is essential to allow ourselves to lean on others during this challenging time, as their support can help us navigate the process of moving on, even when our heart feels reluctant.

Honoring The Memory Of The Loved One

Moving on doesn't mean leaving our loved ones behind. Instead, we can honor their memory by finding meaningful ways to keep their spirit alive. This might involve creating a tribute, engaging in activities they enjoyed, or participating in events that honor their legacy. We can find a sense of connection and purpose by incorporating their presence into our new chapter. Trust that the feeling of moving on doesn't mean we forget our cherished ones. Instead, it's a way of finding a way to carry them with us as we continue our journey.

Allowing Yourself Time And Patience

Moving on is a gradual process that unfolds at its own pace. Be patient with yourself and acknowledge that healing takes time. There is no timeline for grief; it is okay if your heart takes longer to catch up with your mind. Give yourself permission to grieve and heal in your way while being open to the possibility of finding joy and meaning in life once again. Trust that the pain will become more manageable as time passes, and the healing process will gently guide you toward a place of acceptance and renewal.

Our funeral director can help you with pointers on trust, the feeling of moving on, and our other services. Contact us at Tindall Funeral Home or call (315) 468-5521.

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